Miss understanding with your neighborhood

Hi every one,how are you doing.help me to look into this case,let take for example,your neighbor borrowed money from over 2year and have not paid you,you keep disturbing her and she keep begging you to please give her time and she dont want her husband to no about it.aftet three year you decide to tell her husband and her husband was mad at her but he pay you back the money.ever since then you keep greeting her and she refused to answer you.she dont talk to you again in the compound.what will you do,will you let her be or still continue greeting her or beg her?