Do Something BOLD.

in #motivation6 years ago (edited)

Life is all about molding and building yourself into a better person. If you aren't continuing to do that every single day, then you're failing a bit at life. That may be harsh to hear and hard to understand... but how are you going to reach your passion if you just sit thinking; 'it'll be okay, life will just go where it needs to"? I completely understand not having any motivation. I, myself have been there. In fact you can probably tell that by my lack of effort on this platform that I have been slacking at life and things that I call my "passion". I've been ignoring what I love to do, because I'm too self absorbed in my own head. So much that I drown myself in those negative thoughts. I'll be honest. Me doing this to myself has made me not only doubt myself, but to doubt my way of life. My way of parenting and in my personal relationship with my Significant other. Instead of being understanding of what my loved ones are going through I was too focused on my pain... on what was making me suffer. That's not right for me... and it's defiantly not okay for me to do that to them. They deserve the world and I have been falling short.

I know for a fact that you've had these fleeting thoughts. That you too, have had moments of doubt. Instead of letting those moments get to you and consume you; look at your mental check list and DO something that will better your life. Make yourself a more positive person. Don't let anger, anxiety or depression win. It's not worth it. All it does is destroy YOU in the process. You are better than this. You deserve the world and to reach all the aspirations you do have. If you continue to let this "fear"; this feeling win, than you will end up in the same place as me: filled with regret and self loathing. You don't want that.

SO. Instead of letting it win. Get up. Get Ready. Tackle something that is on that list. BE BOLD in your endeavors. BE BOLD in your choices. Exert the kind of confidence that pushes you forward not backward into your bed, or whatever "comfortable' situation you have put yourself in.

If you continue to live by those negative thoughts, guess what will always win? A negative mind. A mind that makes you doubt everything you CAN do and everything that you can be. I've realized this about myself... can you take the steps and find what's keeping you back? Can you dissect your flaws, narrow them down and begin to delete them from your life? I DARE you to do just that. I've done it with myself and will continue to for the rest of my life. I once read a quote somewhere that goes like this: "The first step of change is becoming aware of your own bullshit". I've realized those toxic parts of my own demeanor and I've done my best to conquer them head on by telling myself I'm better than the person I have become, the person only I could have created. I HAVE to be better than the person my own mind has let me create.

It took me seeing this photo to really boost me into gear. If my own son is willing to take the jump in life, whether he falls or not, than so should I. If I'm not going to do it for myself, than I definitely need to do it for the little Soul that is looking up to me. He deserves a better person. He deserves the WORLD, and I'll be damned if I don't reach or strive for the absolute BEST.

Jump off that rock. Experience life. Let failure come, but never let it WIN. ALWAYS get back up and conquer the life that you deserve. Every. Single. Day.

BE BOLD. BE YOU. PERSUE THOSE PASSIONS.

Love and Good Vibes to you during this time of change in your life. YOU CAN DO IT!

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La vida se trata de moldearte y convertirte en una mejor persona. Si no continúas haciendo eso todos los días, entonces estás fallando un poco en la vida. Eso puede ser difícil de escuchar y difícil de entender ... pero, ¿cómo vas a alcanzar tu pasión si te sientas a pensar? "Estará bien, la vida simplemente irá a donde necesite"? Entiendo por completo que no tengo ninguna motivación. Yo mismo he estado allí. De hecho, es probable que pueda decirlo por mi falta de esfuerzo en esta plataforma que tengo Me he aflojado la vida y las cosas que llamo mi "pasión". He estado ignorando lo que me encanta hacer, porque soy demasiado absorto en mi propia cabeza. Tanto que me ahogo en esos pensamientos negativos. Seré honesto. El hecho de hacerme esto a mí mismo no solo me ha puesto en duda, sino también a dudar de mi modo de vida. Mi forma de ser padre y mi relación personal con mi otro Significativo. En lugar de entender lo que hacen mis seres queridos. a través de que estaba demasiado concentrado en mi dolor ... en lo que me estaba haciendo sufrir. Eso no está bien para mí ... y definitivamente no está bien que les haga eso. Ellos se merecen el mundo y me he quedado corto.

Sé a ciencia cierta que has tenido estos pensamientos fugaces. Que tú también, has tenido momentos de duda. En lugar de dejar que esos momentos lleguen a ti y te consuman; Mire su lista de control mental y HAGA algo que mejore su vida. Hazte una persona más positiva. No dejes que la ira, la ansiedad o la depresión ganen. Que no vale la pena. Todo lo que hace es destruirte en el proceso. Eres mejor que esto. Te mereces el mundo y alcanzar todas las aspiraciones que tienes. Si continúas dejando que este "miedo"; este sentimiento gana, que terminarás en el mismo lugar que yo: lleno de arrepentimiento y odio a ti mismo. Tú no quieres eso.

ASI QUE. En lugar de dejarlo ganar. Levántate. Prepararse. Aborda algo que está en esa lista. SEA BOLD en tus esfuerzos. Acepte sus decisiones y ejerza el tipo de confianza que lo empuja hacia adelante y no hacia atrás en su cama, o cualquier situación "cómoda" en la que se haya metido.

Si continúas viviendo con esos pensamientos negativos, ¿adivina qué ganará siempre? Una mente negativa. Una mente que te hace dudar de todo lo que PUEDES hacer y todo lo que puedes ser. Me he dado cuenta de esto sobre mí ... ¿puedes dar los pasos y encontrar lo que te retiene? ¿Puedes diseccionar tus defectos, reducirlos y comenzar a eliminarlos de tu vida? Me atrevo a que hagas eso. Lo he hecho conmigo mismo. Una vez leí una cita en algún lugar que dice así: "El primer paso del cambio es tomar conciencia de tu propia tontería". Me he dado cuenta de esas partes tóxicas de mi propia conducta y he hecho todo lo posible por vencerlas diciéndome que soy mejor que la persona en la que me he convertido, la persona que solo yo podría haber creado. TENGO que ser mejor que la persona que mi propia mente me ha permitido crear.

Me tomó ver esta foto para realmente ponerme en marcha. Si no lo voy a hacer por mí mismo, entonces definitivamente necesito hacerlo por el pequeño Alma que me está admirando. Se merece una mejor persona. Se merece el MUNDO, y me condenarán si no logro alcanzar el MEJOR absoluto.

Salta de esa roca. Experiencia de vida. Deja que llegue el fracaso, pero nunca lo dejes GANAR. SIEMPRE levántate y conquista la vida que mereces. Cada. Soltero. Día.

SEA BOLD. SEA USTED PERSIGA ESAS PASIONES.

Amor y buena onda para ti durante este tiempo de cambio en tu vida. ¡PUEDES HACERLO!

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