Relax and be sincere, so you can really move on
For everyone who always complains of being hurt even though they have moved on he said, remember to move on is not by forgetting especially pretending to forget, but moving on is about giving up and expressing it.
It is impossible for someone to forget what happened in the past, unless he has amnesia. So, moving on the right one doesn't have to forget, because just forgetting won't guarantee you don't suffer again.
Because not a few of us whose forgiveness has forgotten, but unfortunately he just forgot but not by forgiving, giving up, and clarifying. So that when he recalled a long event, the wound gave him the same pain.
Relax and be sincere, so you can really move on, and so that you no longer lie to your feelings by pretending to forget them.
So it's simple to address anyone who says they don't move on, don't tell them to forget it, but tell him to let go.
Because forgetting alone is not enough, because it is possible to recall at some time there must be. But when you really have been willing to, then even though you remember every time your heart will be fine.
There are also those who complain, why I don't feel peaceful every time I remember that incident, why does it seem like it hurts me so much?
Wow, this expression really proves that your heart is still dirty with hatred. But anyone who gets hurt will get angry and not accept, now if this is your defense then instinct as a human cannot be denied.
But, do you really want to continue to be hurt by a period that is impossible to repeat? Be smart, you who complain of pain, because it's not a painful memory, but because the hatred in your heart hasn't subsided.
And a silly phrase, I've moved on, I've often forgotten, but why when I remember it this heart still hurt? Even though I've tried to let go of forgetting it.
Eitss, you think forgetting is very easy, especially the memory of your brain is already God blessing good (very magical in remembering), so of course forget it will not be able to treat your heartache.
Then? reconcile with your past, keep your heart clean from the nature of revenge and swear the sarapahi. Remember, when you pray for it is not good, you may be alone who will be anxious because the prayer that you are throwing is bad.
Be sincere, so that you do not always feel persecuted repeatedly every time remembering dark events in the past, and really wrong when you say "if time could be played back, I would fix everything".
Do not! Do not say that, because the essence if he goes means that God has provided better than him. Be smart to interpret what has happened, when God promises that the better you still insist on just saying that?
And most recently, we often meet, or indeed you are currently experiencing things like this, "Why hasn't the heart recovered, even though I have already done everything?
Remember, there is no story that these sincere people will not be okay, because when they are sincere the feeling at heart will plong. And if it turns out you don't, that means your sincerity is only limited to the lips, you have not fully forgiven and let go.