This mata na delicate issue regardless of the level on which the two of them don dey.
I no fit advice a lady to carry her to leg go waka greet a man or travel go meet a man on their first meeting
The reason behind my own comment be say some palavar fit show, like either the man get secret agenda for the lady as the environment wey we dey no allow for trust.
The best wey i dey expect for this issue is that the lady must to decide on the location wey the una two of them go meet. Make palavar or yaw go gas if dey lady travel.
We don see lady wey don encounter problem due to travelling on a first date.
I go prefer travel go her side and settle all the bills wey we go spend
I understand you my padi but asper guy if d girl get roommate where you go stay you go just end up spending more money but if she come your side one na only tfare you go spend and if you get room mate u fit tell am make him lock up and him go understand
If she get room mate she no fit tell you to come her room, she for don arrange another place. The mata be say we suppose be security conscious. If yawa gas when the girl dey your side na double whala be that but once the girl decide then na for the guy to spend be that.
More so, if you go her side the expenses might not dey too much. If na person wey love she go dey consider not to demand from you and she might even take care of you than expected.