I found this post through @roleerob in the pay it forward contest this week
another interesting article @trhtreeoflife, I think that there's no people was born totally as a bloomer, some might be experienced the victim phrase then if they survived they'll bloom. people are born with such ability to cope with their situation and personality is something that you can develop not something there in your blood, IMO.

you can't survive in many different situation alone, but you can adapt to live with the situation and find the best way to keep growing, some might said it is mean "a survival" but it is not a survival when we can learn from others to keep growing, because we are human and we have mind and sense.

thanks for sharing your thought with us too