What do men want?

in #nigeria7 years ago

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Okay.
So I addressed a number of issues in the first section and I have gotten so many comments and reviews and I am glad it touched a number of people that is why I would be writing on the second aspect.
In and out its not specific but I am sure when you read you would pick the parts you feel is needed.
We all have our demons, this demons also reproduce, lol. But yes it never really ends and that is why we need a solace which usually is what we believe in God through Jesus for me which is the case, But we are human, and Man generally like to think of themselves as a small god, which as a result makes us want to hide our emotions when we are supposed to actually discuss them.
To discuss such would also require a woman, note not girl, woman that is matured enough and sensitive to know that this isn’t the time to make jokes and not to use it as an excuse in arguments. When a man can bare himself to you in this nature, belive me, he is yours in totality.
Being naked isn’t particularly about removing the cloths you see, but removing the ones you don’t see and letting you in, when he nakeds himself to you, he expects you to cloth him and embrace him with love and timed attention (meaning, he may need some space at times before you choke him 😁), I am sure you get that.
At the same time look around, what exactly is his problem? can you solve any? Can you attempt to solve any? If yes please do go ahead, truth is if you guys are just friends and its true friendship you would do same, but when together how exactly do you see him?
He should be like a brother, father, a lover, a son and a bestfriend. And know exactly when you need to treat him as either of them.
I repeat. This doesn’t mean I am right. Its just a piece of my mind I think I should share.. just maybe it would help you!! Yes You!!
We say love is overrated, but don’t destroy the little humanity left in some, believe it or not some people still believe in fairytale love, don’t be the one to destroy this dream because you feel its impossible or all guys are the same, won’t you still marry one of these all guys? So sweety sit up, forget what they say, forget the social media, its your life eventually and you would be alone to fight it.
I am not here to defend guys. Nope nope nope. But just saying the bits and pieces that may have fallen of the table.
Your comments would be highly appreciated so we all learn from you.
And you definitely can resteem if you learn a thing or two.

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I mist confess....the write up in the picture really got me. Nice write up dear!

Awwwn. Thanks dear

men need psychologist not women

In this case we talking about men who already have a woman. And not women sef

Nice write up. We men always sense the mental capabilities of our spouses and it's vice versa anyways and when we expect to get something based on our expectations, we get disappointed. As you've rightly said, just forgive, forget and move on..my mind though.