What Causes Someone To Become A Bully? 🌃
Family Influence Leading To Bullying
About one-third of youngsters are bullied and suffer long-lived hurt from it. On the opposite hand, children who bully tend to possess issues throughout their lives associated with continued aggression.
People typically ask if there are things concerning family life that increase the chance of turning into a bully. The answer is yes. It’s sensible to understand and acknowledge home-related risk factors for youngsters turning into bullies who deliberately hurt others directly, or through peers or technology.
How Parents Could Lead To Bullying
Bullies could make fun of, laugh or make rude hand gestures at, threaten, taunt, humiliate, embarrass, sexually harass, spit at, trip, hit, push, kick, tell lies, intimidate, or exclude alternative children to form distress. They may steal or break others’ possessions. Their actions might not solely be directed at individuals outside their homes however additionally at parents, siblings, and partners.
Lack of warm relationships between parents and kids, however instead parental disinterest, coldness, excessive teasing, treating children like enemies, or acting like they’re not likeable or needed. This could end in harsh discipline, like shaming, insulting, yelling or swearing at, rejection, threats, or physical means.
Intervene When Possible
Also, children with low empathy who are bored as a result of they don’t have enough responsibilities could become bullies—harming and exerting power over others could relieve their dissatisfaction and provides them sick thrills. However, as luck would have it intervening to forestall or stop these warning signs and risk factors reduces bullying and alternative forms of youth violence.
Knowledge and action provide families power to scale back this scourge on society. Tell your children regarding bullying, that you simply expect them to be kind, and that you wish to understand if bullying happens to them. Also, make certain to intervene once you see any kid being bullied and support the victim.
Bullying can affect a child right through their lives, even into adulthood, really is a scourge! Bullies are the ones with major issues, not the other way around so it's vital to let one's children understand that there's nothing wrong with them, rather it's the bully that has an inferior complex. Do nice people go around punching others playfully? I think not!
How to stop this? Difficult as most times the parents of these bullies also have issues!
As a doting and loving dad, the fact that my kids could become victims of bullies really really scares me! My kids are thankfully not in any way inclined to be malicious or mean, which I hope has something to do with how I am raising them.
it is just so sad that some kids are prone to bullying as a result of the reasons mentioned in the post, it's really not their fault.
I have been close to having altercations on more than one occasion my kids have been victimised at a party or gathering of some sort.
Luckily for me (and them) I tend to keep my cool in those situations and having read this post, I am super stoked I did keep my cool in front of my kids, as I know now that they will remember that and act in the same way in future.
A great and insightful read, thank you @arckrai
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