Energy vampire. How to recognize and how to fight?

in #philosophy6 years ago

Than energy as a vampire can harm? About the bite, it's a myth, but "drink" your energy completely, which is very negative impact on the health of the spirit and body.

They are characterized as follows: people who constantly need a lot of energy to survive, get it, taking from others, and the person loses power. This is the so – called function of the "sponge" - to absorb the emotional energy of a person who is nearby. And it happens that someone who is not so strong and you are emotionally weak, there is an option to get under the influence of bloodsuckers.

The first signs that you have "drunk" energy, it is a depressive state with obvious fatigue. That will soon result in a number of diseases. This should be taken very seriously and understand who has such an influence on you, and to protect yourself from him.

Who is the energy vampire and their types.

1.Energy vampires are whiners. These are people who just fall asleep to you with their problems and misfortunes, who need to be constantly listened to, regretted that is very annoying, and you lose your energy. This excessive flow of compassionate information is simply exhausting. What is most terrible, you begin to dive into it, passing everything through yourself.

2.Energy vampires are negatives. They feed on the negative that they create. Go on conflicts consciously, respiration receive pleasure. Such people start with a half-turn and can be absolutely on the flat ground, you can not even understand why there was a skirmish, because there was no reason. These people will try to hook you in the most ridiculous way.

3.Energy vampire parent. Gets your excessive attention in all situations to prevent you from happening. Ask a lot of questions, trying to get into the soul to help, even if you do not need it. After such an annoying feeling is not pleasant.

4.Energy vampires are provocateurs. Provoke other people to the conflicts between them, pushing at the argument, adding fuel to the fire. With such people you have to be very careful, because they can give a lot of different false information, which will entail disagreements, at best. Provocateurs usually create an unfriendly atmosphere in their team, weave intrigues, spread gossip and slander others. They feed on the fact that then joyfully watching everything happening.

If in your environment there are still similar to one of the above types of energy vampires, how to protect yourself to be safe?

The main way to protect yourself is to try to minimize communication with him. Coming up with any excuses not to communicate and not to be for a long time.

For bloodsuckers whiners should pay less attention and not to listen to their problems; with regard to negativschikov, to remain calm and not to succumb to the conflict; parents less to tell about yourself, so it's not caused too much attention and care; and the provocateur is not allow to fool you and not to delve into his intrigue.

The main thing is to keep the inner balance with your emotions, do not let your personal space be disturbed, then no energy vampire will defeat you!

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