RE: The last dance saved. Just in case.
I'm so sorry for your friend... Such a sad post :(
But yeah, you have many points there - and most of all, we should live. We should stop getting stuck on details, there's no point. Because life is too short anyway.
I've lost quite a few people so far, young or old, but most importantly very close to me. And every time you think you'll do better, and every time you think you'll get passed the silly stuff and focus only on the things that matter. But this is life, and we keep living, we move on, and after a while, we forget the pain, we stop crying, we get used to the idea that they're gone...and we start living the way we were...whining about everything and forgetting this important stuff... such is life -and death. We can't live in fear all the time... But thanks for the reminder - sometimes we need someone to tell us that we've been in a worse situation, to see the hope opening the way ahead of us... God bless you @tarazkp - and goodnight from Denmark... ;)
How quickly we forget pain should be used as a reminder to push ourselves harder perhaps. We fear entering into pain, yet our general experience is that it always passes and dulls in time. I try to remember all of the pain I have overcome in my life to remove the fear and act into future pain. There is always another side to it, until there is not.
Thank for taking the time and you should be in bed. So should I.
Totally agreed... Sad but true. Goodnight, sleep well - with no pain in your dreams!! :)