we all start out in the mess, if you read this one https://steemit.com/politics/@ozzz169/5eer4e-the-journey-of-power-read-to-the-end-it-gets-less-gloomy I deal with the feeling of despair a bit. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink... at least it will be there and they will know where it is if they get thirsty enough.