Yes, I agree wholeheartedly with you that security is an illusion. I would suggest that it has also been 'hacked' and hijacked as a control mechanism. It is natural for us to look for security (physical) but this system i increasingly used to search for psychological and emotional stability. Once this is the hierarchy in play, it can be manipulated in numerous ways to dictate action and limit our range. The more we take responsibility for ourselves, the less control others have over us.