Thank you so much for your comment @leaky20! ^^

Indeed, people act in ways out of the alignment with their own values because they just get lost in the values of others, in the rules the society has assigned as norm and sell people the blueprints of how their lives should look like. Guess we just sometimes are not aware. We don't pay enough attention whether things align with our values or not and some haven't even explored what they actually stand for.

You are onto something there for sure :)