Sometimes we need to be that person for ourselves ... we don’t need someone else to tell us everything is going I be ok.... although it would be nice .... but we need to make sure WE tell OURSELVES that we will be ok .... it’s rare that someone actually finds the person you describe..... usually that’s all conditional .... once conditions change or aren’t met .... then they disappear ..... or no longer love ... or whatever excuse they give ..... so you need to make sure you can stand tall and make sure you make it all okay for yourself .