RE: ADSactly Poetry - Is Love Today Fading Away?
The concept of true love is fading away because everyone has a plan. (Well, everyone is 'expected' to have a plan.) This plan consists of some steps, and these steps are taken based on data obtained from observing the steps taken by other people. Every now and then, somebody will give you a good plan that is 'supposed to' work, because it has worked for a number of people, except there is no guarantee that the same plan will work for you.
True love does not happen in microseconds. It starts from a special moment and it builds up over time. It can start in childhood or adolescence. It can start when all your hair are white. There are ups and downs in every relationship.
As far as dating is concerned, it is nothing but testing compatibility with a person. There is no guarantee that dating will lead to a relationship. There is no guarantee that a relationship requires dating. There is no official rule book on dating.
You are 18, man. Getting a girlfriend for the sake of 'having a girlfriend' is counterproductive to your other life goals. Just enjoy your life and watch out of signs.
Very interesting response but very true @kouba01. If we plan out love it generally won't work. Love is not something we can put into a schedule. It is something we must live with no boundaries. It is a feeling deep inside, a mindset of the heart, a Free-Spirited way of life. To live is to love. To love is to be Loved. Thank you.
To be 18 years old, you think very well and you talk like you've already had many experiences with hehehe love relationships. I totally agree @kouba01, true love comes at any time of your life, just do not look for it, love appears alone .... and it is true nowadays love is a plan with different types of interests, but still exists the belief of true love and that is good. I know that sometimes loneliness hits but you do not have to worry, love arrives @adsactly.
I couldn't have said that any better. Love is a precious thing that takes time, takes going through experiences with the person and getting to know them on another level. I believe that true love doesn't happen until you TRULY love yourself first, so you are capable of loving someone else.
Well said. Having a plan isn't a bad thing, but it's also necessary to be able to have the flexibility to lose control occasionally and just enjoy the life we have been given.
no ... me thinks you need to take nap ... me watch fire while you sleep ... go rest GOOD K.I.D. ... you change your mind later ... you feel better after you rest ... me keep watch ... me sure ... me love even you forget how much G_D loves you sometimes ... me sure ...
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