Great post @honeybee . Yes first of all, we have to love and accept our unique self then we can love and accept others. Be mindful and express gratitude what we have in this life, everybody's life is different. Being nonjudgmental,optimistic and acceptance of life situation( not in control) make us happy and longevity.
you got it man. well done. let us all embark on this path with security, confidence and clarity.