Thanks @raybabyshell for entering and sharing your post in my #popcontest ! You can never really know anyone ! we all have secrets and not everyone that steals or does other things wrong has a criminal background to even check , how many people are going to ask the mother in law if their future wife is a kleptomaniac or whatever !? lol! We just have to trust our own judgements and feelings and work through these issues no mater what , like they say " Through thick and thin!" if you truely love the one you married , you will always find a way to get help for each other or counselling before calling it quits !! Marriage takes a lot of work by both parties , its not easy ! but anything worth having usually is not ! like Steemit you need to be Dedicated , loyal ,patient and persistant , never give up !!
Good Luck , upped and resteemed , Steem on !💍✌👍💍💕✌💍