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RE: A DECADE OF JOY & BLESSINGS! - Happy 10th Birthday my precious little soul!
This hit a particular special point with me. A few months back 4 to be exact a mate of mine was in a tough spot and needed to chat, so we hit the local pub. Long story short the tequila's were flowing, he said to me hey Craig invite Annelien, and so I did, a few more tequila's later went home, a week later she calls me up, Craig we are having a baby. He is due in Feb Valentines day actually, I am rather nervous, excited/traumatized even, but wing it on the fly we must? Myself and her are not getting along but have agreed to do what is best for our child at all times together or apart, nervous exciting times, but overcome we shall. x
Well, first of all CONGRATULATIONS @craigcryptoking! Second of all, apologies for such a delayed response.
I know that mixed bag of feelings very well but I can promise you this, irrespective of what happens between you and the mom, you child will become your greatest love and your biggest joy! Yes, he or she will test you, challenge you and push ALL the boundaries and there will be days when you literally feel like you can tear your hair out... but remove them from your space for even a few hours and your whole world suddenly feels empty and pointless.
It the greatest gift you can ever be granted and I have no doubt that you will be a fantastic dad! So, yes... ride the wave, try and keep things civil between you and mom (always) - for the sake of the child.
You will be fine! :)
Awww thanks so much @jaynie I really appreciate that I believe every word of it, be blessed, have a super cook Weekend. Cheer$;)