I do agree with you when it comes to "best caregiving" and assuming responsibilities Sammi.

Of course, I have no doubt that parents have the best intentions towards their child's development when they do everything for them, and place no boundaries during their upbringing. This is why I think it's important to communicate to them the possible negative outcomes of this. Thank you for illustrating this very point with a personal story. Examples like this are ubiquitous!

As for akamu, I have never tried Sammi. I have just looked it up on google. Images of it and how to make it. It seems pretty straight forward and I like that it takes corn starch rather than flour :D

Thank you my dear Nigerian friend.
For your constant & invaluable support! <3
Lots and lots of love to you all the way from PT :*