The formula of friendship

in #psychology7 years ago

This formula reflects the main characteristics necessary for strong trust and friendship between two people. This will work if you need to make friends with a business partner, a new boss or get closer to the person you are in love with.

Intimacy is the psychological distance between people. The main condition for the appearance of intimacy is a feeling of comfort and safety in communication. Allow yourself sometimes to violate a person's personal space, enabling him to decide how and when you should be closer.

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Frequency is the number of contacts and interactions that you make with another person per unit of time. The more time you spend together, the more you have in common and the more influence you have on the thoughts and actions of one another.

On the contrary, if you rarely meet, the duration and significance of each meeting increases significantly: you literally catch every word of the interlocutor and do not waste time on stupidity. Strip duration, but observe the frequency.
Notice how important this indicator is. It reflects whether you are enjoying your time together. And here an important role is played by a community of interests and desires.

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