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Does it fit you macoolette? That's a beautiful one. I just told someone else that saw the butterfly that it means(according to the psychologists) that you are flexible, you're able to change yourself based on what the current situation needs, and you always have the guts to do the things that are of utmost importance. To make the hard choices. This is true for you?

Yeah, I guess I am flexible even if it is against what I wanted which in turn causes my own frustration. I hear some people say "I don't have a choice," which I do not agree to. There are always choices. The only question is, which is the better choice according to your values?

That is a great point macoolette and very wise, well said.