Is Modern Society Obsessed With Short Term Pleasure?
Introduction
Something I have been thinking about for some time is the issue of short term versus long term pleasure.
A while back I wrote a review of Mark Manson's book - “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck”.
One of the points he makes in that book is that focussing on short term pleasures does not lead to long term happiness or contentment.
Another book I read recently - Simon Sinek's "Leaders Eat Last" elaborates on some of these concepts further.
One of Sinek's central hypotheses is that a focus on short term pleasure in modern society is responsible for a lot of the failures in modern business practice and lack of leadership.
It also results in the boom and bust cycle which we witness in the markets over and over again.
It appears to me that the fast pace of modern society has lead to a focus on the short term highs of immediate pleasure to the detriment of long term contentment.
I think if we look at the contemporary society we can see countless examples of this here are a few:
- Overeating, gambling and addictive behaviours in general.
- Company CEOs who risk the long term viability of their companies to maximise short term profits and their own bonuses.
- FOMO in the stock markets and markets in general.
Immediate Pleasure Versus Long Term Satisfaction
I think we need to draw a distinction between the two main forms of pleasure.
We are somewhat hampered here by language as we use the same words interchangeably and that inevitably leads to confusion.
There is the short term pleasure — the “high” or “dopamine rush” as some would call it.
This is our immediate motivator for action and makes us feel good in the short term — but it doesn’t last long and we become tolerant to it fast.
There is also another form of pleasure which comes from long term achievement.
Satisfaction is perhaps a good way to describe this and it comes from sustained achievement and work over a long period.
— Think of completing a big project at work, succeeding in gaining a large contract after months of effort and so forth.
Not only are these things we work on over time but they often involve teamwork and collaboration.
They give our lives meaning and help to create the long term feelings of satisfaction, achievement and fulfilling goals.
They are often costly in time, money and other resources. They are also not immediately pleasurable.
These two different types of pleasure are in constant conflict within our psychology but it seems that in modern society the short term pleasures tend to win out.
The Hedonic Treadmill
I have previously discussed the concept of the hedonic treadmill and I believe this gives a more technical way of understanding this:
The concept was originally developed by Brickman and Campbell in 1971 (unfortunately I have been unable to access the original paper online).
A later paper (and book chapter) by Kahneman [1] has a nice summary:
"Brickman and Campbell (1971) based their conception of the hedonic treadmill on a notion of adaptation level, which Helson (1964) had introduced earlier to explain phenomena of adaptation in perception and judgment. Anyone who has bathed in a cool pool, or in a warm sea, will recognize the basic phenomenon. As one adapts, the experience of the temperature of the water gradually drifts toward 'neither hot nor cold', and the experience of other temperatures changes accordingly. A temperature that would be called warm in one context may feel cool in another. Brickman and Campbell proposed that a similar process of adaptation applies to the hedonic value of life circumstances."
This adaptation phenomenon is vital for motivation. If it didn't occur we would just do one enjoyable thing and never be motivated to do anything further again!
We can see clues to why it emerged in our evolutionary history. Life was very tough for our distant ancestors - just eating would have required massive struggles and life-threatening risks.
Pleasure existed as a means to keep them motivated. — It was a reward that kept them going through the pain and the challenges so that they could survive.
That pleasure was scarce though. Doing anything to bring it on required a lot of hard work and effort.
This is not the case in modern society where food and various other types of pleasure are immediately accessible.
I believe that it is that sustained work and achieving long term goals that leads to the long term pleasure - the situation of feeling contented and happy.
The problem is that those short term pleasures can blind you to the value of long term contentment.
The Addiction Component
As many of you who have been following me for some time know, I have had problems with addiction myself.
It would seem I am not alone though. According to US government statistics published in September 2015:
Approximately 21.5 million people aged 12 or older in 2014 had a substance use disorder (SUD) in the past year, including 17.0 million people with an alcohol use disorder, 7.1 million with an illicit drug use disorder, and 2.6 million who had both an alcohol use and an illicit drug use disorder.
I believe that addiction is the result of becoming overly obsessed with short term pleasure. It is an attempt to beat the hedonic treadmill and as a result it is doomed to failure.
Ultimately you can't fight your own biology.
It is also a perfect example of the detrimental effect that instant pleasures can have on a person's life.
Nobody would call an addict happy or indeed healthy. The thing is you don't have to be an overt addict to engage in addictive behaviours.
Certain modern manifestations of addiction may not even be widely recognised yet (e.g. social media addiction or mobile phone addiction).
Conclusion
I wanted to keep this short because I believe this is a good topic for discussion and that is why I haven't listed off a long ream of examples - there is no way I could cover everything and it would make the post so long that nobody would read it.
To summarise my personal belief is that there is a fundamental imbalance in modern life that encourages the pursuit of short term pleasure (highs) to the detriment of long term contentment and happiness.
I believe this touches all fields of life from business to people's personal lives.
What do you think? Have you seen examples of this yourself? Were you someone who became stuck in this sort of pursuit yourself?
Please let me know in the comments.
References
- Kahneman, D. (2000). Experienced utility and objective happiness: A moment-based approach. In D.Kahneman & A. Tversky (Eds.), Choices, values and frames (pp. 673-692). New York: Cambridge
University Press and the Russell Sage Foundation.
Really good post @thecryptofiend. You gave many of us a lot to think about.
Glad you liked it!
I think people are getting more and more comfortable. Look at how many marriages fail. People get tired really fast about everything. And life is about effort and sacrifice to achieve your goals.
Exactly.
How many people won't even stay here for a month to build some reputation. Everything is a chore these days. Some of my friends even say it is 'too late' now to join. Just because they are lazy.
This is something I have seen as well that saddens me.
I actually think it is the other way around. I think a lot of people are seeking short term pleasure to distract from the fact that the long term picture isn't looking good for people in the under 30 demographic.
A house, long term savings, retirement, job security, etc. are all pretty unattainable for such a big portion of the population, including a large and growing number of former middle class. But for some, consumer goods, luxury food and drink items, etc. are affordable and make you feel like you are working for something for now. It sounds irresponsible, but it is really soul crushing to just work your ass off day in and day out at a terrible dead end job with nothing to show for it for years on end, only to have your meager savings repeatedly wiped out by car/health/housing emergencies.
To me, the most glaring example of this is the massive expansion in debt across the entire world in the last few decades.
On a political level, debt allows politicians to buy off their constituents without having to make hard choices related to the budget.
On a personal level, debt allows us to buy that house, car, boat, etc. that we've had our eye on without putting in the work and saving that should be necessary.
In both cases, the debt eventually catches up with us and we end up spending the vast majority of what we have on interest instead of things that you want in the future.
I think the same principle applies in life: if you sacrifice future gain for present stimulation, you'll end up paying for it in the future.
Yep, nailed it, our government is really just a reflection of how most of us operate. Most, not all!
Superb point! Debt is the perfect example of this philosophy at work. Instant gratification in exchange for future work.
Exactly, i too think the same... We have been brainwashed to a level that no one sees this.
On average in the USA, a worker (me, you?) will have about $2 million pass through their (our) hands in a lifetime. It seems to me that we're in some trouble, because in order to enjoy a decent retirement, one needs to have approximately $2.5 million saved in a retirement account when we retire. I don't care what the financial experts say, unless one invests ones money just right, it's not even a possibility.
Many of my coworkers don't have a penny to their name and they are in their mid 40s!!
Now I do what I can to scrimp and save....but you're right....living for the now vs. living for the future is an epidemic. I'm in my mid 30s and my grandparents worked as hard as they could and they barely had a decent retirement to fall back on, and they DIDN'T have all this debt that we are saddled with today.
We get conflicting messages from financial institutions regarding saving for retirement. The financial industry wants people plowing as much money as possible into their retirement products, while central banks artificially suppress interest rates (which affect the value of every other asset) to encourage spending now instead of saving. The level of risk in any investment (including putting money in a savings account) has skyrocketed, and the vast majority of society doesn't know how to deal with this.
With 25% of Millenials living with their parents and not working or studying, we're already beginning to see a shift back to family living models that we thought we'd left in the past. I think you'll see more and more elderly care taken on by adult children to save on nursing home costs.
For me, the science is convincing that "retirement" is bad for your health and that continuing with some kind of work until you physically can't anymore is the best way to live.
$2.5 million?!?! maybe so, if you stay in the "First World"! I didn't, and so far have been able to stretch a half million far enough to own a big house, drive a nice but old Honda and raise a family. Had to learn another language to be able to do it, though...
Costa Rica? :)
I think a great component in the pleasure equation is our feelings. Almost all people that I have met with some kind of addiction had trouble distinguishing the rational from the emotional.
This relates directly to our evolutionary roots like you mentioned. Emotions are essentially instincts on steroids.
The emotional person fails to rationally bypass the present and is fearful either of the future ( anxiety) or the past (depression).
Very good point and I have found that I have been at my worst when it came to the drinking at periods when I was overly emotional. I have also come across people who use things like alcohol to counter overly rational tendencies - "come out of their shell" as the saying goes. As with most things there is a delicate balance that seems to be best.
Our attention spans these days are so short that we need something new stimulation at all times.Even in movies and TV shows these days the camera shots last only a second or two and are quickly cutting from one scene to the next and one view to the next whereas in older movies camera shots were much longer as peoples concentration could be held for longer. Everything we do nowadays requires instant gratification or it is not a worthwhile endeavor. Just as well we have opposable thumbs.....for swiping smartphone screens. :) Thanks for the post buddy!
Thanks for commenting. I think the example you give of TV and movies is a brilliant one and something that becomes really noticeable if you watch old movies and media for comparison. The need for constant stimulation can be addictive in itself and I believe this is an example of pandering to it.
Definitely agree with that. Addiction to multi-media and social networking in my view is something that we really need to keep a watchful eye on. Especially with our children these days it seems like all other activities have taken a back seat.
Yes .
Never though about this, but it's a good point, i have noticed new movies have an insane amount of cut scenes, almost makes you dizzy! Going to have to go back and watch some older movies to analyze this a bit more.
Great post, everyone is addicted to small time pleasures, if people would have focussed on long term goals, they would be more happy with their life and would be less frustrated while dealing with others. People risk everything to achieve these small term goals. I think not even 0.01% people of the world are able to find out what small term goals/pleasures and what long term goals are and of those who pursue it, they are leading the world in their specific areas. This is the only difference between leaders and followers.
Thanks. Yes it is a common phenomenon in modern society.
True story.
Thanks so much for this awesome article @thecryptofiend. I have had addictions to social media particularly facebook. I have had so many problems in life that I used facebook to entertain myself by following some comedians. It was helpful, but later became a problem as it was effecting my work negatively as well. I wouldn't fully concentrate on anything but facebook. But my phone got spoiled, and I didn't have money to repair it, or get a knew one, so my activities on social media got hampered; that was how I got free from social media addiction. RESTEEMED!!
Thanks for sharing your experience. I think one of the hallmarks of any kind of dependency/addiction is when it starts affecting other aspects of your life like work. At that point it starts to become pathological.
You are welcome @thecryptofiend
No doubt, thats why I love working with the plants and nature, slows our senses down. Great write up
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Thank you!
Gardening is underrated in modern times.
Are you a gradener? I love gardening. I also am working with citrus on the Citrus Greening disease issue.
Yes @liatrissaga we have a little farm here in the jungle, grow many fruits, medicinal plants and roots!
Its about finding a balance that fits you. Also being aware of consequences that are caused by either immediate pleasure or sacrificing for the future. You dont want to stay too long on on either end of the spectrum. Great topic!
Yes I agree. Thanks!
Unfortunately, with anything there are negatives along with positives. In our current world of social media everything is instant gratification to the Nth degree. Cell phones too!
There is no anticipation, no build up. Ex. - In college, I would call my girlfriend at the time before I left to drive back up to school. Then I'd have to wait 3 hrs to talk or see her again, thus anticipation, excitement could build up and you appreciate the moment when you get there more.
If it were now I could just be on my cell phone with her half the ride and then not even be amped up to see her when I arrived...LOL
Yes that is a very good point. Anticipation heightens the perception and magnitude of the reward.