There are grievous reasons why parents unwillingly

There are grievous reasons why parents unwillingly but have to give good spankings to their children. Good means just ONE big smack at their buttocks with a soft slipper, the reasons....siblings quarelling, hurting themselves and others, disrespecting parents , elders and others. It is ok with me if they are noisy, disorderly because it is only home where they can feel comfortable doing things they can't do at others abode.After their playtime they have to put things in order.