We are different (I): Highly Sensitive.

in #reflection5 years ago

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Since you were a child you have seen the world with the eyes of sensitivity, a situation that makes you feel fragile, exposed and many times discovered, your heart is filled with emotions so deep that you feel lost in yourself, in your own sea of feelings that break or feed your soul. Sensitivity is good on many occasions, but there are people who are highly sensitive and frankly this world is a battle where the strongest wins, these people usually have uncertainties, at night you get the fear, at night they feel fear and insecurity of what will come.

They are very attached to their loved ones and friends, the bonds of love are intensely valued and every detail, every word, every gesture, the time shared, is felt with the soul and they live intact in their skin, in their being and in their heart; they are people who unfortunately suffer for the same reason of being pure sensibility, imagine living in that way the 24 hours of their life, think: with the society we are how will they feel? with the majority always looking for themselves, the selfishness that prevails in the workplace, the "constructive" criticism that they usually hear regarding their personality, the lack of tact of the majority.

These very special people are affected by the situation of the other, no matter who they are, they are moved, they cry, they laugh, they are so easily moved by the things they can witness, even a movie can take away their sleep.

In friendship they are great friends, love is their main motive in life, once they become friends, they act like a brother or sister, they are unconditional and give everything for the wellbeing of the other, but many times they can cry and suffer in their own inner world, seeing and feeling that their friend, even if he or she is good, does not act in the same way, nor does he correspond to situations in the same way as they do, always giving himself completely, from the heart. Generally, these people who are aware of their "difference" keep their friendship because of the value they give it and let the actions of others flow, observing, feeling and letting others be.

Father you must be attentive to the details of your child

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All human beings are unique, since we are born we are presenting and developing certain behavior, a lot of learning and part of inheritance, perhaps you have a child at home with high sensitivity, a main feature is that they cry too easily, not as a form of blackmail or tantrum, you must differentiate this, is for reasons that obey the feelings. If the child is introverted, which is usually the case, the emotions that invade his being are not externalized and he keeps everything to himself, that is why you must be attentive to the behavior, recognize his essence and help him, give him love, security, affection, guide him in specific situations so that he knows how to respond without giving in completely to the feelings.

Father you must do everything possible for your child to relate to people of his own age, interact continuously with others, the issue here is to make it emerge naturally, not imposed, you must lead him to learn from childhood as people are, to face daily problems from logic and intelligence without being dragged by tears and emotions in an excessive way, it is not easy, you must devote time, and with your own example teach him the healthiest attitude to achieve it; if it's possible to take them out of their "world" a little, letting them face it and connect with the things of life.

Love yourself as you are

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You are highly sensitive, you have the wonderful quality of feeling deeply, you are soul in the air, an open sky, the echo of sincere love, you are pure feeling; recognize it and accept yourself as you are, when you are aware of this you can act on your own behalf, do not expect others to respond as you do, they are far from it, in this society unfortunately sensitivity has very little importance and even for many it is weakness, but you know that it takes strength and willingness not to break down before the frivolous and selfish events of others.

Accept yourself as you are, you can not really change the world around you, however you can change the closest and most intimate environment of your own existence, be yourself, show yourself without fear, that fear does not hinder your future, some people love you others do not, and that is normal, be brave and love yourself first, that somehow that will bring more love on your way, you are unique, special and valuable.

Thank you dear friends for your support, any suggestion or comment will be received with great affection.

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Beautiful read. Thank you for sharing your thoughts

Xo,
Gil

Beautiful read. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Xo,
Gil

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I hate when am overly sensitive though but sometimes I can't fight the feeling, it's like am naturally born like that. Am sure other women can agree to this

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