Signs You are Being Cheated On.

in #relationship7 years ago (edited)

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Today, I am diverting from my story, To Do or Not To Do, and sharing with you some signs that you should look out for as a lady if you want to know if your man is cheating or not!

Now ladies, you may be in self denial after reading this piece... but sis, if you see them signs, you better believe that this nigga be all up in another chick's phone, cheating on you.

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So, 1st clue...

HE STOPPED FLAUNTING YOU OR DOESN'T FLAUNT YOU.

Well, we know that some men are quite shy and usually like to keep their relationships off social media. But, here's the thing. He doesn't put your picture up at all, only on your birthdays. You are never on his profile picture and wait for it.... No other chick is on his profile picture either. LOL, there is another woman. As simple as that. He's trying to protect you and the other girls from being hurt or steering up trouble. Don't believe me? Ask him today, to put your picture up for just a day and then, ask him to do it a week later. Best of luck!


2nd Clue

HE DOES NOT WANT TO TAKE PICTURES WITH YOU OR DOESN'T KEEP YOUR PICTURES ON HIS PHONE.

This one is quite tricky. This could mean that you are the side chick and he doesn't keep pictures of you or the two of you on his phone because he is afraid that his wife / girlfriend is going to stir up trouble. Imagine spending a lovely vacation with your man and taking a picture of his handsome self sipping some wine and he does this...

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Sis, R-U-N. Simple.


3rd Clue

HIS FRIENDS.

How your man's friends relate with you could give you deep insight on whether or not hes cheating on you. How do they relate to you? Do they call you "Our wife" ? Or keep reminding you of how you are the only person in his life. Well, if the answers are yes, it's time to be alert. Fine, maybe they are just genuinely a cheerful bunch. But there is no smoke without a fire... is there?

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The squad ladies.. beware of the squad.


4th Clue

THAT ONE PARTICULAR GIRL

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Is there one particular girl he keeps telling you not to worry about? That they are just close friends? Nothing can ever happen between them? The one girl he's always texting? Well, you should be worried. Maybe your man is good. But what if she isn't? What if she is out for him? You can never know. So, want to know if there's something going on between them? Ask him to invite this close friend of his out with you all. There's no harm in getting to know his friends is there? If he doesn't....well, need I say more?


5th Clue

The final clue is... Does he look like this when he is on the phone?

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If this is frequent, I'm sorry Sis. There is another woman.

Thank you... Let me know if we managed to catch a man LOL.

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Lmao.. You hit the nails on the head. Best of luck in catching those cheating heheheh.. Nice post btw.

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You can either read this post if your going through a break up or being heated on or watch "Cheaters". I was awaken this morning to an episode where one of the guys that was cheating with the guys wife actually stabbed the host of Cheaters. The scene was cringe worthy, but somehow funny to me? Is my humor dark?? am i going to hell?? IDK..But all i know is i have been cheated on before and there are more signs and situations that will tell you than just the above. Like they won't call you anymore and they always want privacy. When your in a relationship you have to be open with one another.So if you are experiencing these things then your probably getting cheated on and you should act fast before you become any more vested in the person.

Your humour is definitely dark for sure! Haha... sorry about your situation though

No problem, I just have been hurt many times and i want people to learn from my experience. One day i may do a post on the break-up play by play. One day when i feel like i can discuss the entire situation. I just want to teach the community about cheating while also making light of a bad situation.

Good post, I am a photographer, it passes for my blog and sees my content, I hope that it should be of your taste :D greetings

Thank you. Alright i will

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