50 Shades of Happy - Shade 1
Not sure how to make her Happy?
I don't claim to have all the answers, just what I have experienced myself.
So I thought to post 50 ways to make your partner happy and excited to be with you from my own experience.
Who am I? I'm just a guy who has been married for 4 years now to an amazing and beautiful woman and this is my way of "giving back" to other guys out there who want to bring a smile to their partners face.
Shade 1/50:
Sacrificing time and Energy to enable her to relax
You know how it goes: You have an awesome birthday party or you just had your family over for dinner and the kitchen looks like a mess.
You could already make her happy by just helping her clean up. But to make her absolutely thrilled, and to collect bonus points, you could
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I have done this once or twice, and you cannot even imagine how happy that made her!
Consider this: If she was the one who set the table and cooked the meal she will be exhausted knowing that she still has to get everything clean. Maybe a long hot bath is the very thing she would desire in that moment. Even if she doesn't, she will be thrilled by the idea.
What to do:
Let her start to clean up the kitchen while you steal yourself away to the bath. Set up some candles where you want them and then fill the tub with water. Don't forget to make it bubbly! If you have access to a Rose, throw some petals into the water as well.
For some more tips check this out: http://www.wikihow.com/Set-up-a-Romantic-Bath
Then go back to your darling and tell her you want to show her something.
Bring her to the Bathroom and tell her that you want her to take a relaxing bath while you finish cleaning because you love her and are thankful to her for making such great food.
Don't be shocked, she might get tears in her eyes!
Then kiss her deeply, leave her to herself and go back to the kitchen to slay that monster.
What's so great about this?
She will feel loved and cared for. She will know that you got her back when she has a lot to do. She will know that you go to great lengths to make her happy and that you sacrifice to show that you love her.
Also: Once you cleaned up the kitchen, if you are so inclined, you might join her in the tub for some steamy time!
When I did this they ended up being some of our most memorable times together.
!!!!Very important:!!!!
Do not expect anything from her!
Don't treat this like "I did this for you so now you have to let me make love to you".
That is childish and just plain stupid.
If she is not in the mood for lovemaking and just wants to relax,
be gracious about it.
Demand nothing from her.
You should know how to read her to know how to treat her.
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