HOW TO EXPRESS LOVE AND BE LOVED

Wow, guys, there is LOVE in the air and I need to share my thought on how to express love this season. Today I will delve into something that is so dear to my heart. I want to talk about the relationship and how to succeed in it. Many of us miss out and quite too soon just because of miss understanding. In a relationship, there are things that we do that will sustain the relationship and there are things we do that kill it quicker than we can comprehend. More often than not, we try to express love to our partner base on how we want people to express love to us. When we begin to see do like this, our partner can feel not acceptable just because we have not been able to speak the language of love that they understand. Don't go around telling people I love her or him when you cannot meet the persons love need. Everybody has a language that he or she understands. If you can touch the heart, you can get their hand.

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When you want to express love to someone try to find out the way that the person will respond to, by this you will know how to tell someone that he or she is being accepted. When you express love to someone the way you want people to express love to you, you are making the person less valuable in his or her sight. This morning I caught myself doing what I would like someone to do for me and the person could not understand it and she started shouting at me. What makes her shout? Because that is how I want people to do to me. Am learning how to work with people around me.
Love language is the way of meeting the emotional need of the people.
Here are the five ways of expressing love this Valentine season.

1. WORD OF AFFIRMATION: Words are powerful and it has a way of sharpening someone's life and destiny. There are that will take your words seriously no matter how careless you may take it. There are people that want you to affirmed that their looks, ideas, and everything around them is perfect. There are those that are words sensitive, and you need to know how to use words and brightens someone's life. Words are powerful weapon use in conquering depression. Please never use word carelessly in your relationship, many relationships have been ruined by words and many will still be ruin. When I was much younger, I used to internalised every word spoken to me even to my own hurt and it was not funny at all. Get her or him to do what you want by your words. Please let it come from your heart, mean it when you say it. Always let these word flow freely from you, "I love you, You are the biggest thing that ever happens to me, You look sharp, You are a supermodel, Your smile ehhh can heal a nation" etc. These are words that lift people morals and give them a sense of acceptance.

2. QUALITY TIME: Wow, they are many people in a relationship today and they are complaining bitterly that their partner does not give them time, that they always focus on their job, and they don't have time for them, and even after showering her with all the gifts of this world and they still complain. This set of people need you to be around them and they need your undivided attention.Many of us our gadgets are our greatest distraction in our relationship. Quality times means giving someone undivided attention.here I mean taking off everything that could distract you and stay only you and your partner alone and have the latest gist. If your partner love language is quality time, he or she simply need you to be with her and spend time together, not in the movies but around her.

3. GIVING AND RECEIVING OF GIFT: Gifts are a powerful tool to get someone attention. Every love that does not have root in giving should be queried. If my love language is receiving a gift, and you give me a gift, you've left an indelible mark on my life. Gift show that you hold the person dearly in your heart and that you are thinking of the person. When talking about a gift, it must not be too costly or too cheap, but you have given her/him he or she did not expect from you at the moment, you have imprinted yourself in the heart of the person.Express love to your workers and they will work overtime for you. Another thing to know about a gift is that the gift of a man make a way for him and bring him before his expectation.

4. ACT OF SERVICE: It is seeking to please your partner by serving him or her. By this, you take up the responsibility of doing things for your partner. You can do a simple service like cooking in the house, waiting for your partner to finish eating and you pack the plates. this is aim at surprising him or her, doing the things whereby you would not love to do for her or him. Also consider changing the baby's diaper, cleaning the house, keeping the car in operational condition. All these are an act of service. This should be planned for not just casually done, take your time, put your energy and make it as effective as possible. There are people that this saying "ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORD" have a greater meaning in their lives.

5. PHYSICAL TOUCH: Physical touch is powerful for communicating marital love. Holding, kissing, embracing are all ways of expressing emotional love. A tap on the shoulder can go a long way to ease someone from the stress of life. Never leave someone the way you met the person. Let someone know that you care and you want their best to come out.
   Everyone responds to love. Love is filling the air now and we need to know how to express it to the fullest. Remember the hurt of this world will smile through your love.
   Happy Valentine.
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