How do you repair a broken relationship with someone?

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To repair a broken relationship requires some steps for you to take and the first thing to do is to work on what broke the relationship in the first place. In any relationship trust matters alot and to get trust at the first time of the relationship is easier than to trust to build a broken trust. Try to check what is the problem in the first place and try to mend that because if you don't work on that then that will be the same reason the relationship will break again.

After know what is wrong and you have worked on it then you should try to avoid the blame game because trying to blame one another for the reason of the broken relationship then you might not be able to rebuild the broken relationship. That why it is better to find the reason of the initial break-up than finding the person who caused the break-up. Then try to accept the outcome of whatever you find is the reason for the break-up in the first place and learn to take responsibility.

If you truly want to repair the broken relationship then you should go and meet the other person and try to start up the relationship in an apologetic manner. Don't wait for the other person to come to you first or try to feel too big to apologise, you have to make the first move and bring down whatever ego you have.

Both of you should try to talk about what happened previously without blaming one another and both of you should be ready to avoid such mistake from happening again. Bring up happy memories you shared with each other and with time the relationship will be back to what it was and might even to better than what it was.