There was a time when men taught their sons how to be men.. I think that day has ended (i'd like to think i'm teaching my guy - but the world has changed).. Its no wonder most men have lost their confidence. Its hard to be confident when there is a lot of confusion around what men are still allowed to do (or if there still is such a thing as gender). That said - a confident guy will win any day of the week - not just with women ;)