Mens biggest mistakes in the relationship

THE FOUR BOGGEST MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP...

Pamela Madsen Says, "I have watched men blow relationships even when they actually love and desire their woman."

How can we really want to be in relationship and yet make a mess of it?

#1 - BRING YOUR PRESENCE

Presence is about attention and connection. Put down your phone and stop texting, scrolling Facebook, or reading email when you are sitting with her. You are dating her; not your smart phone.

Feminine energy requires a certain level of attention, adoration and praise.

• What does she need?

• A single compliment or a moment of complete attention may light her up for an entire day.

Really. Do you have five minutes to gift her that? Yes, life gets in the way and men tend to be be focused on what they are focused on and this may mean that you overlook and ignore her. You also may feel so confident in her love for you that you take her for granted and put your attention else where.

This is true: If you fail to make her feel special and put “other stuff” or “other people” in front of her for too long — your relationship will break down.

The feminine is turned on by knowing that you can be her rock and that you are there. Every time, you act uncertain about your relationship, fearful or indecisive it breaks that connection and makes her lose her desire for you and even worse she can become untrusting.

When a woman loses her trust in the connection that her partner is offering her they can turn off like a light switch. Giving a woman consistent dependable connection is perhaps the biggest key to loving a woman. If you can’t figure out how to create space in your life to offer this to your feminine partner you will lose her in body, mind and spirit. Guaranteed.

@alina aspley