#7 Relationship Advice for Men - Uta Demontis

The 9-Second Kiss

Many couples in a long-term relationship stop kissing. The long, passionate, erotic kisses you enjoyed at the beginning of your relationship turn into a quick peck on the mouth. Stopping the kiss is one of the first steps towards a sexless relationship.

Therefore, make sure that you keep kissing your partner! The 9-second kiss is a way to ensure that you connect intimately in this way, every day. When you or your partner comes home, make the first contact between the two of you, a kiss – a kiss that lasts for at least 9 seconds – while you closely hug each other. Make it a juicy, sexy and succulent kiss! Through kissing, you connect. Kissing creates desire. It brings you closer to your partner.

On a physiological level, kissing decreases the levels of the ‘stress hormone’ cortisol and increases the levels of oxytocin. Oxytocin is also known as the ‘bonding hormone’ because it is responsible for creating the feelings of bonding, connection, intimacy and trust.

Uta Demontis, Ph.D. is a professional Relationship Coach and Clinical Sexologist. Uta works with men, women and couples who desire to have a fulfilling love and sex life. Check out her site utademontis.com.