I LIKE you. Do you like .....ME? Don't Panic !!

libra (25)in #relationships • 8 years ago (edited)

I LIKE YOU is always the beginning of an earthquake. Sometimes will be a little nice ride in a roller coaster or sometimes will be a total disaster. Those "SHAKES" make us forget a few basic things. One of those basic things is simple MATH.

Why is that so important ? Because the beginning of LOVE should be simple Math. I'm talking about the ones that we learn when we are kids.

Very easy:

I like you. Do you like me?
Yes, I do…I like you

So why we make it so complicated?
Because we make our own rules where 1 + 1 is always a number but 2.

- You are great, but…I’m not ready…I’m busy…I just need sometime...I need bla bla bla
...what am I missing ???? All the excuses, the maybes, the long waitings, etc, make a result 0. NoThIng

WE ARE NOT DOING SIMPLE MATH !!!!

Let's put on the table two Basic principles:

RESPECT and INTEREST

I know that you are thinking that trust is the most important thing. We couldn't agree more, but we’ll put it on the back seat for now. I can TRUST you and then I can be sleeping around with everyone. And with that doesn’t mean I don’t TRUST you.

But in the other hands…

--- If I RESPECT you, I will never fool you. I will always treat you with respect, so I won’t do anything to hurt your feelings and your dignity.

PLUS

---If I have INTEREST in you, and when using the word interest I mean I like you and I want so spend time with you. I will do anything I can to get to see you, to talk to you, to send or reply a message, to be there for you. I’ll loose hours of sleep if it’s necessary to be with you for just one minute.

Simple and easy math. Respect + Interest = LOVE

There is no "but" or excuses in Math. And neither do are in LOVE. There are just FACTS.

So try to make numbers with your heart the next time you meet someone. Oh, don’t worry if you forgot the basics or you never went to school, because there is only one MATH you have to know about Love:

1+1=2