Complain about ruining your relationships
When we complain, we may taste the sweetness of gaining attention or sympathy, and we can also avoid doing things that make us nervous; however, the act of complaining is also a double-edged sword and will bring negative effects. "It's so annoying, it's annoying!" Early in the morning, I heard Alice complaining constantly. A colleague frowned and muttered unhappily: "I was in a good mood, and I was annoyed by you."
Alice is now the company's administrative assistant, and her affairs are complicated and a bit annoying, but who would call her the company's butler? No matter the details, who wouldn't she call for? In fact, Alice has a cheerful personality and a serious and responsible work. Although she is full of complaints, she never delays what she should do.
Equipment maintenance, buying office supplies, paying phone bills, buying air tickets, booking rooms... Alice is so busy all day that she can't wait to grow 8 hands. Coupled with her enthusiasm, people who are too lazy to go downstairs to eat at noon also ask her to help order takeaways.
Just after paying the phone bill, Joanna from the Finance Department came to collect the glue. Alice said unhappily, "Didn't you come yesterday? Why do you have a lot of things, this one today, that one tomorrow." The drawer opened crackling and turned over. He took out a glue stick, threw it on the table, and said, "I will get the things together!" Joanna was a little embarrassed, and she couldn't say anything, she hurriedly said with a smile: "Look at you, every time you ask someone for reimbursement, she calls her dear. I beg you for something, your face will grow soon."
Everyone was smiling, Cathy from the sales department rushed in. It turned out that the photocopier had a paper jam. Alice's face immediately turned cloudy, and she waved her hand impatiently: "I see. I'm so annoying! I've told you a hundred times, first fill out the warranty form." The list was shaken, "Fill it out, I'll go and see." Alice murmured as she walked out, "All the people in the general department are dead, look for me for everything!"
Anna was angry at the table: "What is this, did I provoke you?" Although the attitude is not good, the normal operation of the entire company is really inseparable from Alice. Although she was sometimes robbed of him and couldn't get off the stage, no one said anything. how to say? Isn't she doing everything she should do? However, those "disgusting", "annoying", "didn't you say it"...It is really uncomfortable to hear. Especially the people in the same office, when Alice called, their heads were big. "Please, don't you know what emotional pollution is?" This is the unanimous response of everyone.
At the end of the year, the company democratically elects advanced workers. Although everyone thinks this kind of activity is ridiculous, they secretly hope that they will be on the list. Bonus is a trivial matter. Who doesn't want his work to be recognized? The leaders thought that Alice was the advanced one, but looking at the results of the voting, there were more than 50 options, and Alice only got 12.
Someone said privately: "Alice is good, but her mouth is too powerful." Alice was very aggrieved: "I am exhausted, but there is no human forgiveness." Sometimes, complaining can really relieve one's emotions and be good for health. But if you complain too much, it will be annoying. Complaining is definitely not a good thing, it will not bring you many positive benefits.
Many people don't like people who only know about complaining every day. Because people who complain often have a very negative attitude towards life and are dissatisfied with everything. In fact, there is no such need at all. No matter what kind of life you have, you have to live your life. Why keep complaining about life?
Those who have complained for many years may eventually be banished by the people around them, because everyone finds that their energy has been drained by the complainer. They turned our original pity into boredom by the nature of complaining. On the contrary, some people who face harsh situations can remain optimistic and don't make themselves feel like victims.
We don't like to see some people complaining about something deliberately in order to show off some aspect of themselves to others, as if they are great. To put it bluntly, no matter how you complain, this is life. Life means you have to live it. Why live with complaining because you can't get the life you want? Facing everything that happens in life calmly is life.