HOW CAN YOU TELL IF A GUY IS READY TO SETTLE DOWN?

So what are the signs that he’s ready to settle down with you? I’m going to share little of them with you below. If your man is showing at least a few of these signs, he is most likely ready to settle down with you. The both of you have been dating for a while and he seems committed to the relationship but how much is he really committed to you? Is your relationship meant forever, or just for fun now? It’s a question to answer without outright asking, but that can chase a man off. If you really want to know if he’s in it for the long term, look for these signs that he’s ready to settle down:

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1. HE’S ALREADY MADE SOME COMMITMENT. He wants to meet your family. He wants you to meet his family too. He wants your families to meet with each other! He doesn’t just want you to meet them; he wants you to know them. . If he’s already shown signs of taking big steps in your relationship, there’s a good chance he’ll sign up for a lifetime.

2. HE TALKS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE. It’s important to him, it matters, and he wants to see things work through. When a guy isn’t ready to settle down, he has a take it or leave it attitude with his relationships. He doesn’t invest much of himself. If things work out, fine. If not, whatever, no big deal. When your man starts making long term plans with you in them, you know it’s not just a fling.

3. HE’S LESS INTERESTED IN GOING OUT. A party boy is not ready for the responsibilities of being a husband don’t be deceived that is for a time. That doesn’t mean he can never go out, but when a man starts getting serious in what he does, he starts slowing down things. He’ll start feeling more comfortable staying home with you rather than at the bar with his friends.

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1. HE STARTS DISCUSSING MONEY. What sort of lifestyle will your combined incomes allow for? How much do you want to save, how much to invest, how much do you want to put away for retirement? And how about your future kids? How are you going to pay for them? Getting married means the both of you must discuss how you will spend the money that comes into the home. Some men will not want to talk about it. And this has brought a lot of troubles in some home.

2. HE’S MADE YOUR RELATIONSHIP A PRIORITY. The guy who’s ready to settle down knows how to balance time between you and his friends. The guy who just wants to have fun is more about hanging out with his friends and trying to see you when he has time, usually on the weekends. Men who aren’t serious about their relationship tend to put it last in their list of priorities. Just because a man cares about his career doesn’t mean you should feel less important in his life. Sure, he’ll still have other commitments, but it should be clear that your happiness is on his mind.

3. YOU FEEL SECURE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. So many women can’t admit the insecurities that they feel in their relationship, if the man you are having a relationship with, is beating you or using some kind of words that are not pleasant to the relationship please kindly leave that man he is not mean for you. Pretending everything is fine only results in a messier end. If you honestly feel completely secure and confident in your relationship without pretence, it’s a good sign for the final relationship step: marriage.

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1. HE MISSES YOU. When you’re apart (and you should have some time apart) you should both be missing one another. Does he call when he’s out of town? Check in through text messages? Does he say the words: “I miss you”? Ask yourself these questions and give answers to it. Well, if he’s serious he does. It’s natural to miss your loved ones when you’re away. When he’s truly missing you, you’ll know it.

2. HE CARES ABOUT YOUR NEEDS. This is usually harder for men to do than women, and it's not because they don’t wish they could put the needs of their partners ahead of their own. Instead, it’s because his ego and his upbringing make doing so incredibly difficult. A person in love puts their partner’s needs before their own. Is your man caring and attentive? If you’re spending too long wondering if he is, the answer is right in front of you, it’s just probably not the one you wanted. You shouldn’t have to guess, whether or not he cares should be obvious.