How to be right, forget how to be nervous. Take it easy.

in #relax8 years ago (edited)

Actually, I want to start it in a different way,
So it can be an interesting fact what you not supposed to do. Every time you have to be calm. You must. Just tell yourself you can do it.

  1. Parents
  2. Home life
  3. Sisters and brothers
  4. School or university
  5. Work
  6. Husband
  7. Family problems
  8. Animals
  9. Street traffic
  10. Finally yourself

1 PARENT
Every morning I have a problem. That's my mom. She doesn't know how to be calm and relaxed. She is running around and screaming at every thing that moves at morning time. I hate it, because she starts to scream at me, I'm just trying to run away from that.
Once I tried to get up earlier than her and run away, sometimes it helps but .. not every time.
At least I know that she will never change herself but ''WE'' or ''US'' can change ourselves.
Dear people, if you have children, do not yell at them and of course never let them be teased by someone.

2 HOME LIFE
At home it supposed to be calm at any time, do not watch TV as loud as you can, please, begging you, it will bother not just your roomies it can hurt your neighbors. Image of Yaktocat

So while you having sex or something else don't scream, I'm so tired to tell my neighbors to be quiet!
That's not because I'm jealous, that's because it is not comfortable for my guests or parents which also tired about that kind situations.
Imaging my grandma's face oh it was terrible :)

3 SISTER OR BROTHER OR BOTH
You have to know how to share your stuff.
Towels, clothes, books, good mood ( not bad mood, ahahah, forget about all bad things, just good ones)
Don't argue with them, keep calm and it will save you forever, maybe for five years more.
Do not destroy them toys.
Do not fight with them.
Do not take them food.

4 SCHOOL OR UNIVERSITY
It's not possible to argue with a teacher that's for 100% sure.
Do not tease your teachers or they can supply you with a smaller ball for the test.
Be polite and every time you see them you'd better have a huge smile on your face.

5 WORK
Don't wear red dresses or skirts like prostitutes.
To save money you can bring your lunch box with you and thermos with hot tea or coffee.
Never take banana :)
Don't wear high heels so often, just when you having a dinner with a nice man.
That's my opinion.
For woman, don't take a huge bag with all stuff in it which you possibly won't be needed this day, prepare day before at the evening time, woman must be organized.
For men, comfortable shoes and t-shirt without color, must be white or grey or black, without sketches on it. Organized as same.

6 HUSBAND
All the time he is sleeping because of hard work all week long. Come on, relax together! Make him a breakfast or dinner into the bed. He is the chief of your family. He can do whatever he wants. Don't forget to bring a present for your women some day :) I think she is tired of thousands homeworks like housewife everyday.

7 FAMILY
There a lots of things and it's about how to communicate with other people.
Family is something that can be easily destroyed but to grow up a new one it too hard.
Be careful, be strong, be nice, don't scream and be polite. I don't have a family but in future maybe I will.

8 ANIMAL
Don't buy a small toy just for fun. Take it serious. It's not easy to care about someone if not earning money by yourself.
You need a lot of time for your animal for example - dog.
You have to walk outside at least 2 hours per day.
You have to feed your dog.
If you going on trip, you need to leave it with somebody or take it with you on holiday.

9 STREET
If you have a car... lots of money for gas.. uuuh be strong.
Design your car if you want but it is lots of wasting money.
Drive carefully there tons of little children on the roads.

YOURSELF

DON'T BE AN ANIMAL( LIKE sheep). That's all.

DONT FORGET TO RELAX AND BE CALM SOMETIMES !
BEST WISHES,
-ELYA ALIBI