I find that really remarkable. We were a close family anyway, but when Dad got really sick, we all pulled together even closer. I have a closer relationship with all my family than ever before and I have learnt more about myself too. I really feel for the spate of suicides amongst your community - I'm a teacher, and i see the effect deaths amongst teenagers has on communities and how suicides can spread. It's always so devastating. Much love and strength to you to support your loved ones, and may you rest and repair on many more holidays together!