thanks for sahring this insightful thought @benanis, I have them both, but the second types only appears when I started to compare my life with others, so.. after a long and indepth observing my own behaviour, I have no reasons to be negative anymore, we're not here alone and by ourselves.. so every dynamic thing is in need positive energy, so.. better be the first type. found your post through @chekohler entry post in the pay it forward contest this week.