Please flaunt yourself to the fullest. No one has the ability to shape ur future than you.
You are custodian of your life, future and destiny. Believe in yourself more sis.
Self esteem is something I take very important in my life. Without it you will have inferiority complex everywhere you go.
Forget about what people say. Yoruba adage says:
Iwofa ni enu, nkan to ba wu elenu lo le fi enu so.
It's means the mouth is an engagement, you can say anything you want at anytime. It's non of my business.
Ride on sis. You are on your way to the top.