Comfort Zone,Safe Space and Familiarity.

in #selfhelp7 years ago

The expression "safe place" is really deceptive. For the time being, the safe place feels great since it is peaceful and offers no test, yet in the long haul it's a (purposeful) jail. Trust us . . . we've met extremely numerous individuals who have experienced their entire lives in their customary ranges of familiarity. In any case, the pads dependably destroy in light of the fact that we've discovered that these same individuals feel baffled, discouraged, and remorseful in the long haul.

Now and again, we are "prepared" to acknowledge our usual range of familiarity as sensible limits of our potential. Be that as it may, be careful! At the point when this happens, we seriously constrain ourselves. A well known National Geographic show clarified how infant elephants are restricted to a little space starting during childbirth. The coach utilizes a rope to attach one leg to a wooden post planted somewhere down in the ground. The elephant's development is limited to the length movement is restricted to the length of that rope, and that area becomes—yep!—the elephant’s comfort zone. At first, the baby elephant will try to break the rope, but it soon learns the rope is too strong and will cease trying!
When the elephant grows to be a five-ton giant, of course it could easily break the rope, but matter of fact,
doesn’t even try because it now believes that the rope cannot be tore down.
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And so, even the most humungus elephants are easily entrapped by the puniest tiniest rope.
Now let’s look at your ropes. Have you been trained (by somebody else or by yourself) to believe things about yourself..that you can't do something... that somehow,is just not cut enough for you?...

Time to ponder.

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Until Next time,
Mob.