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RE: A Few Thoughts on Men and Sexual Abuse

in #sex6 years ago (edited)

I woke up once to a women already on top of me having sex with me. I certainly didn't consent, but I also didn't stop her once I realized what was happening. It was still entrapment in a sense. Because I was young and stupid, I felt like I then had an obligation to stay with her.

Yes, it is different for men, and single guys are not exactly going to turn down sex or sexual acts from women. That doesn't make the older adults preying on younger boys right however. Those people are still predators and should be treated equally under the law whether they be female or male.

I also have had my ass pinched at work numerous times by women, and nothing was ever done about my complaints. A lesbian body builder leaned over once and squeezed the inside of my thigh as she reached down to pick up a pencil she had purposefully dropped too. When I complained? The daughter of the owner of the company just laughed at me. It was of course not taken seriously.

At the same company, a 50+ year old woman I had zero interest in as a young man in my 20's "fell in love" with me. She was stalking me, writing me love letters, and sending me cards at one point. That sort of stuff happens to men too to many women's surprise.

Oh yeah, the same girl that started our relationship by mounting me while I was still asleep ended our relationship by date rape drugging me. She had been cheating on me for over a year with someone else, and she was trying to get me to cheat on her to make me out to be the bad guy and for her to be able to walk away.

I'd be in jail if I did what that psycho did, but hey...double standards exist, right?

At a past job, I had a female boss who kept asking me out to lunch alone also. She would always put her hand on me when she talked to me too. It was either my shoulder, forearm, or side. As with the previous example or harassment at work, nothing was done about her either. They just moved me to another contract.

Anyway, I share these experiences not because I'm terribly upset about them as the victim. It isn't like I was mentally scarred by any of them. The double standard should definitely be discussed however, for women should not be able to get away with such abuse simple because they're women.