All couples will experience conflict, so learning how to mange disagreements in a constructive manner is crucial. Just like the Geneva Convention helps countries to fight "fair" while at war, having written rules can aid couples as they engage in the "battles" of marital life.

I will be uncovering EIGHT GOLDEN RULES FOR PROTECTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP DURING CONFLICT in a very straight forward way.

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1 Above all, strive to reflect honour in all of your words and actions during a conflict.

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2 Select an appropriate time and place

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3 Use a time out when things get out of control or escalate. How -ever, resume the discussion when your emotions have cooled off.

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4 Communicate with active listening; repeat what your mate is saying. This slows down the process and allows the person to feel heard and understood.

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5 Attempt to find a "win-win" solution - where needs are met on both sides.

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6 Accept any blame for your part in the conflict and forgive each other.

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7 Protect times of fun, friendship, and sensuality from conflict by agreeing to deal with the conflict at a later time.

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8 Make conflict resolution a regular habit!

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The rules above has the ability to resolve any conflict if approached as stated.

What are the rules or strategies you have been using to keep your relationship locked-down from unresolved conflict?
Please, feel free to comment as I wish to know your opinion on this.

Cheers!
I am @isaaceko