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RE: Should You Refuse to Have Sex with Your Partner Because You Just Don't Feel Like It?
You sum up the main issues quite nicely.
I would add a suggestion: It's far too simplistic to just talk about having or not having sex. Because that's a yes/no question.
Imagine asking instead "How do you want to have sex?"
Very true. It is so important to receive stimulation in the ways that feel good for you... There are many ways to have sex. I think communication is key here as well.
It's natural for me to express what I like - and yet I encounter partners who take this as some sort of criticism of their psychic abilities to know exactly what I want ;)
Hahaha yes and many people just assume their partner should just know what they want without explaining it to them... And when they don't they are left unsatisfied. It's so easy to be satisfied if you voice your desires! It's silly, really. I guess it's just something we have to learn to become comfortable with.
Well said, pussycat.