MY EXPERIENCE WITH THIS LADY
I kinda like ladies who know what they want and don't feel guilty about it. It is mostly common among experienced ladies.
It is all shades of maturity. I don't have strength for pretence. I understand we are always quick to see negativity in a woman's sexual preferences and approach. Perhaps they have no right to erotic fulfilment. I don't know shaaa.
So, I met a lady online, then.. We got talking and began a relationship. Before meeting, we already shared pictures - half nudes. So, she had a picture of my weapon. I know that some guys zoom their cameras when taking pictures of their penises. I guess she thought I did that too.
The first time we met in her place. It wasn't a sexual meeting shaa. It was just a normal "let's 'meet and greet' kinda stuff.
I'm very reserved when it comes to sex. Maybe because I don't ever get satisfaction if it is not consensual sex. In fact if we are having sex, and I'm the only one initiating it, I am on my way out. Sex for me has to be mutual. I guess, green light stuff doesn't work for me. If you are not willing, I will not be too.
She opened her door and I got in. I was still standing, and waiting for her to shut her door. Next thing, somebody grabbed my penis from behind. The only way I could describe the look on my face is for you to imagine the face that Jordi El Nino the teenage porn star makes in his videos. I couldn't say a word. As I was finding my way back from my momentary reverie, I heard her saying: "it is the same size with what you have been sending in the picture".
Then, she left me and went back to sit. I was offered a seat and we spent the rest of our time talking about stuff. Of course sex didn't happen that day. We had already agreed that we would not have sex that day. We are adults and we just didn't want to do it that day.
My point is that some people would want to paint this same picture in a negative light but I sincerely like what she did. Experienced ladies do not have time to beat around the bush when it comes to sex.
They ain't bothered about your narratives.