Know what women secretly want when it comes to sex

It is difficult to verbalize the sensation of intense sexual desire, to explain it with precise words. We look back and find examples that evoke and activate it, but we know that such situations are not a canon, they will not always work, they depend on the person with whom we were, the place, what happened in our life in that instant...

Desire is a real chemical cocktail. From a scientific point of view, in the case of men it is easier to explain since it is more direct. For women, however, it depends on hormonal fluctuations. They tend to be more inclined to seek sexual encounters during the ovulation period or even during the period. But it must be recognized that it depends on each woman; If you ask them directly, each one can give you a different answer.

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It is important to know that, at certain stages, women are also less likely to seek a complete relationship, preferring self-exploration or, if appropriate, sharing an intimate moment of contact with the partner. Although it is frequent to associate satisfaction with a total fulfillment of the act, for many women there is no form of sexual pleasure unique, reason why it is essential to extend the spectrum of the desire if we want to delve into its complex erotic intimacy.

Going directly to the hunt for that desire can lead us to not find it. Searching for rules is a mistake and it is more effective to rely on more general principles or to make small detours. It is worth remembering here what the experts repeat to us to the full: it is necessary to renew the small details on which the sentiment is sustained every day.

However, not everything is wasteland. You can study the female desire to extract suggestive ideas that allow men to understand our partners a little more, train our skills and improve our role as lovers. Several surveys and studies are put at our disposal to guide us and shed light on the mystery surrounding the most intimate secrets they hide.

Seek more intense encounters
Such is the conclusion that emerges from the survey carried out by the Italian portal Incontri-extraconiugali. The equivalent of Ashley Madison in the transalpine country conducted a study with a surprising sample of ten million people, both men and women. A document that allows us to compare the preferences of each sex.

Specifically, while 21% men were encouraged to increase the number of sexual partners, what women preferred was to increase the number of spicy encounters with the lover: 20% confessed that was their priority. In conclusion, they tend to optimize the resources they already have by varying pleasure and including new nuances. The trick is that each encounter is slightly different, do you have to change frequently the place, the positions or situations that trigger the desire to have sex, and how about varying the pace: sometimes it is softer and some more aggressive? However, the infidelity of the female sex is an element that appears strongly in the case of women with children. According to another study carried out by the same portal of amorous encounters, one in three mothers confesses to being unfaithful to her partner.

Following the previous survey, 15% of the interviewees wanted to feel freer to make room for their own fantasies, to be more uninhibited and to try new sensations, compared to only 11% of males. 11% of women also confessed that they would like to travel to a foreign country, while for 9% it was vital to spend a good part of their time caring for their own body.

Be unique and exclusive
According to another study conducted by Cornell University, women prefer men who have leadership characteristics. They especially appreciate men who inspire them with confidence and who demonstrate an important ability to display their positive influence on others. They value security as well as their ability to convey that feeling. They also expect their partner to be able to make important decisions. In short, they worship those who are capable of giving them protection.

According to this work, women also seek partners with an attitude to create a solid relationship. Presuming Don Juan gives us an image of inconsistent and unstable people, so empowering that role in front of a woman that we feel especially attracted to, is not perhaps a good strategy.

The importance of humor
Laughing increases the sexual satisfaction of the woman. For the female gender a funny man is also a man who accepts and shows confidence. In short: man's sense of humor is an aphrodisiac for them. It says a work carried out by a team of the University of Albany led by the psychologist George Gallup.

Laughing favors circulation and oxygenation of the blood and stimulates the generation of endorphins, neurotransmitters that are a drug for love and sex (the body produces them especially during the phases of falling in love, as well as during orgasms). Laughing, finally, lowers the level of stress and tensions. If we think of the nerves that appear before confronting an encounter, we can understand the effects of disinhibitory ones that appear when the situation is faced with humor.

Sex for women is as important as for any man. Of course, they live it differently. We hope that the conclusions drawn from these lines will be useful to deepen the desires that remain hidden in the mind of your partner. However, we invite you not to introduce formulas and to explore a little more the particularities of that woman who accompanies you in your erotic existence. Perhaps sharing this article with you may serve to delve into the nuances that trigger your encounters and make you unique in bed.