SEXUALITY DEVIANCE,ADJUSTMENT AND CORRECTNESS (MASTURBATION)

there are two major factors that determine ones lifestyles ,namely: human and the society. Human design the pattern of the society.......in return the society dances to our tunes. It is more or less existing relationship between a famer and his seeds. You harvest what you plants. No two ways about it. Technically,these two elements are symbiotic. Therefore,society is static but its inhabitants change,which affect the socio-structures. There are more than thousands of socio-issues that human being are consistently battling. This issues are perennial. Come to think of it, When there are socio-issues that militate our daily routine,it breeds divergent views.In fact, different school of thoughts. Well, opinion differs. I will stand as an umpire in this discussion to avoid to be misconstrued. * that reminds me of list of socio-issues that needs to be talked about. * I will talk about this ** heartburning topic.**

* What is Masturbation?*

*stimulation of self-genital organ for sexual pleasure or satisfaction. * Often time,people loathe talking about it because we see it to be crass and ill even if it is daily ,weekly routine. It is grossly unacceptable and people that indulge in it are regarded to be "terrestrial possessed", abnormal and weak to woo their opposite sex to be laid.

Origin of Masturbation

Over the time,historical facts are depicted and entrapped in artifacts, personal diaries, archival materials and the likes. During prehistoric epoch,paint showing a female with a male genital organ masturbating. A clay figurine of the 4th millennium BC from a temple site on the island of Malta, depicts a woman masturbating. In fact,one can easily find trace history of masturbation in Ancient Greek Myth. With Greek myth masturbation is normal and it was seen as substitution for other form of sexual pleasures. The Greek regards this subject matter "asanaphlan", "up-fire". One of the Turkish ancient classical philosophers,Diogenes masturbated public,and said jokingly, "If only it were as easy to banish hunger by rubbing my belly." *

SOURCE (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_masturbation*)

* Causes of Masturbation*

There are countless number of factors that spring up this act,masturbation and these are :
1.Watching pornographies

Human heart is vulnerable and weak. We easily conceived what we see or watch. A lot of people derive pleasures from watching porns. 88.99% of persons that watch porns,think about it,and act on what he /she has viewed.

2.Sexual Addiction
Do you know that some people are sexually randy. They can hardly go in two days without having sexually intercourse. It sounds strange but it is true. They frequently have urge for sex. If they can't have sex,they stimulate their genital organ.
3.Long Distance Relationship
Not everybody can have long distance relationship. Some are used to it while some are struggling to catch up with it. Some who fall in this bracket, might find cheating not comfortable but,they juggle around with it or perhaps with sex toys

4.Reading adult-rated or porn mag or book.
It is advisable to becareful and matured while reading through sex-appeal materials. Most of these materials are fictions while the authors use certain imageries to pass across his /her taught.
5.Low sexual satisfaction.
It is alarming these days,most partners who experience low sexual satisfaction from his /her partner seeks external sexual pleasure from either through masturbation or engaging in extramarital affairs.
6.Demonic Attack.
This has not been scientifically proved but in Africans in Africa and diaspora do believe in African magic. It is believed that people with supernatural or with terrestrial power can easily maneuvered or influenced one's life with spell to be sexually deviance

Health benefit of masturbation

1. Auto-genital stimulation avoid risk of STDs
2. Reduce stress
3. Reduce menstrual cramps
4. Faithfulness in long distance relationship
5. Reduce level of sexual urge
   6.Reduce level of sexual tensions
6. Avoidance of unwanted pregnancy
7. Birth-control methods
8. It increases level of orgasm
9. It helps to sleep better

Health Hazard of Masturbation

1. Addiction. Anyone who indulges in this activitie, will be addicted to it. Even frequent conventional sexual intercourse has it worst nightmare not alone masturbation
2. Lost of interest in conventional sexual intercourse
3. Reduces sperm count.
4. Speedy ejaculation when having conventional sex
5. It creates room for fidelity in the part of partner who can't overly enjoy sexual intercourse
   6.Masturbation makes you weak
6. It drains protein and calcium content in the body
7. It increases low self-esteem
8. It reduces level of communication between partners
9. It is against the Divine Law of Multiplicity
10. It affect memory and concentration
11. Vision blurred

How to Control Masturbation

For easy assimilation, and before I explain further, kindly go through the below flow chart

to step out from one's daily or weekly activities can be hardnut to crack. It is mind set,I will stop,I won't do it again. As human,we have silent religious activities that we can hardly let second ear to hear. May be because it is unpleasant or it is widely condemnable.
Masturbation addiction is not good because such individual cannot go a day without having the urge to masturbate even though some find succour in it to meet up their urge for sex. There are thousands of both genders that are passing through this,they find hard to stop,all you get to do is to work on it. Remember no one is perfect in this world. We all have shortcomings. Visit a psychologist today and pray over it. Note,not all societies frawned at the subject matter. What is wrong here in our culture,it is grossly acceptable elsewhere

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