If you are still single, please live seriously and manage yourself well

in #single4 years ago

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Many women pay little attention to their image after marriage. They wake up naturally every day, go downstairs to buy vegetables in their pajamas, and chat with their neighbors. They feel that they are married and have a husband who loves them, so they don't need to spend time to restrain themselves.

Know how to give up laziness. They will spend time on themselves. They don't hate trouble. They wear makeup before going out every day. They not only have to keep their makeup exquisite, but also walk into the hall and kitchen.

And these, they never show off in the circle of friends, do not like to do superficial language skills, and truly have a high-quality life.

Improve yourself

Vanessa has been with her ex-boyfriend for 8 years. Later, her ex-boyfriend went abroad and asked Vanessa to accompany her to take care of her daily life. Vanessa didn't want to get married, so they just separated.

Later, Canny became a teacher at this university. She wants a job and a house. Because she ended a relationship, she didn't have much to let go. Instead, she restarted her life. She works hard to manage herself, manage her life, and constantly improve herself. She never forgets to go to the gym in her spare time. During the holidays, when everyone was out to play, she also signed up for training courses to train her professional knowledge. She likes arranging flowers, so she spends time studying.

It should be this sentence: Successful people are improving themselves.

Because of such soft power, Vanessa is now in love, married and had children. Everything goes with the flow, she lives a happy life. It is this high-quality constraint that allows Weiwei to continuously improve herself. She can accept the departure of love at any time, because she has her own capital, independent personality, independent economy, and is also qualified to harvest her own love.

Don't care about others' eyes

No one is perfect in this world. No matter how good a woman is, she will inevitably be criticized. But there are too many women who care about other people's thoughts and eyes, think about why they don't like themselves?

Why did he treat me badly today? What did i do wrong? Care about other people's eyes too much, live in other people's eyes.

Don't care about other people's eyes. They think it is a good thing to take good care of themselves and be yourself.

Do what you like to do. Even if you fail, you don’t care about the ridicule in the eyes of others. You still pursue your dreams and fail repeatedly until you succeed.

Because other people's ideas are just other people's, don't let other people's ideas determine your life. Without your permission, no one can look down on you. You are the only master of your dreams and happiness. The only thing that matters is your thoughts.

In fact, the greatest capital of a person has never been how good a family, how good a husband, how good a job he has, but having a person who has been polished by the years and is still moving forward every day. Women, whether in love or not, should know how to give up laziness and constantly improve themselves. Don't care too much about other people's eyes.

If you are still single, please live your life seriously, manage yourself, improve yourself, and prepare for love. So when love comes, you can relax.

If your love is unfortunate, then use your best self to say goodbye to it. At the same time, you have the capital to live out a high-quality self and wait for love to come again.