Double date

I spent the majority of my 20s single. I traveled solo. I was the third wheel. I was the “single” friend.

For years before meeting Meyer, I would have people feel genuinely sorry for me when they found out I didn’t have a boyfriend.

I could have just spent an hour talking about the success of my business, having traveled to over 50 countries on my own, displaying self-confidence and wisdom beyond my years— but the second I said I was single, I instantly became a crazy cat lady, loudly displaying a countdown timer to infertility.

The conversation would literally go from “WOW! You’ve done so much at such a young age!” to “You better lock it down before you’re too old to have kids.” (insert a real LOL here) I spent my 20s seeing the world, learning about what I truly wanted out of life, growing a business and selfishly focusing on becoming an awesome human.

Some people meet their soul mates in their teens, and others might find love where they least expect it. There is no “how-to” guide for life OR love. So, don’t compare your life to others— especially on Instagram.

Love yourself first. Accept yourself. Truly. Flaws and all. It’s one of the most cliche things to say on a day like today. But, self-love isn’t important. It’s necessary.

Believe in yourself and do what you want in life. Appreciate the journey. Surround yourself with friends, family, and people that bring out the best in you. THAT is the true secret to happiness.