Society and the Social LIFE

Often time I hear the arguments and conversation about the social phenomenon of marriage and divorce, why couples cheat and all that, most times I ignore it because of the understanding I have but let me share this thought and idea with you all and I beseech you to keep an open mind till the end.

It obvious and undoubted that man was not created or built to live alone, and by man I mean both male and female gender. So at some point in time we all should have a companion. But most people focus their point to the gender factor when it comes to cheating and being unfaithful in a relationship or marriage, and of course the male gender would be the topic of that debate. However, we fail to see the crucial aspect of it all which Is the fact that most of us are of the opinion that couples should save themselves for marriage, and by this I mean (No sex before marriage). When married and you find out your spouse does not suit your sexual desires you tend to want to satisfy your needs at some point in time eh? After all them say BODY nor be firewood.

I trust us brothers, we must surely look outside. I know now that at this point most of you would be thinking, they can come to an understanding and learn to please one another, but not in all cases, the society we find ourselves is such that a majority of couples shy away from stuffs like this, a woman cannot summon courage to tell her man that he did not please her well in bed, and believe me guys 80% of us don't actually please them ladies. So why risk saving yourself for a life time of unhappiness? I'm not saying go out and abuse yourself all in the name of finding your match but try stuffs out and see if you can change your spouse in the areas that would be comfortable for the both of you before going into marriage, so that if it doesn't work out, you wouldn't result to seaking satisfaction outside. Note this is not for sex only but also for behavioural patterns et all.

Thank you.
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