Thank you! I'm glad, that you are back. ❤️
Yes, we are one in our egoic tendencies and also on the level of Mind. We all have the voice of the ego and the voice of love inside.
We are not one on the level of bodies, simply because bodies are an illusion and illusions can't unite.
I agree, that relationships show you your misperceptions ("perception is projection"), but they don't show you your flaws. You don't have flaws outside of a distorted perception of your one true nature. 🙏