They say you are what you eat. The same is true spiritually. If you put garbage in, you get garbage out.

I think it's admirable that you and your wife have made so many decisions very intentionally because that's what you felt God wanted you to do. At the end of the day, most kids won't care that they didn't have the coolest toys or whatever. They'll be glad they had time with their parents and that they were loved. That more than anything will keep them from getting swept up in whatever nonsense others their age might be into.