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When a relationship stays for a while.. And we get too used to our partners. Events which were hitherto fun gradually turn into a routine and routine we all know is boring.. If all he now says to you when he calls or chat you up is "How are you?, How was your night, How's your day going, I hope you've had your breakfast" and such other pleasantaries is all that you've had over the years..and you are getting so use to this that you can actually presume his/her next line of questions..

Where your conversations are no longer spiced with the orgasmic feelings of excitement and joy but rather is more like an interview session.
Then I can confidently say that you are gradually drifting into a boring relationship.

For some people the length of interest in a person maybe for a year, others few months, some weeks and I've even heard of those that get bored after a few days.. Lol. It happens.

Most atimes feeling bored with your partner may have nothing to do with dwindling love for him/her..or that you've are seeing someone else or cheating on them...you may still love him or her deeply but just still feel bored with the entire program of events in your relationship... it could be that a relationship wish you had long fantasized to be your eldorado of fun is gradually getting into a regular routine of Hi and Hellos.. This is more common in long term relationship and where partners get to see each other regularly.

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A boring relationship overtime can lead to a total break up.
As humans we don't tend to stay in activities that bore us for too long. Life was meant to be much fun and full of excitement and we wouldn't wanna spend it in a relationship that's not giving us any of that.

A relationship was meant to be one where you find joy and excitement with the presence of the other party. A relationship, where we spend a lot of time with someone in everyday situations, needs to be fun and exciting in order to make life more rewarding and fulfilling.
Life in itself is already too stressful to come back home each day to a boring company.

Here are few crucial tips that can help rekindle the fire that you once felt when you first started.. I mean that feeling of excitement at the sound of your partner's voice or the goosebumps on your skin whenever you see him or her is supposed to be an everyday experience.

The goodnews is that you can restore your relationship back to default settings with the following tips:

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**HOW ABOUT A UNIQUE DATE NIGHT?** This is one tip that you simply cannot miss in virtually any article that tends to fix issues as it relates to reviving a dying relationship. it's that important.

You have to re-introduce romantic dates once more into your relationship. Not simply any dates, but dates that would create a stronger bond between the two of you.

Try and remember how your first date with your partner felt and how every subsequent dates felt new and exciting. Keeping this in mind would help you in your plans in recreating such memories.

When it comes to romance, nothing can beat dynamism.

So be dynamic in your approach to dates. Don't keep carrying him/her to the same restaurant that you guys have been going to over the years. You should rather strive to create date night that are distinctive and exciting. This is where your creativity comes to forebear.

Choose where is simply unforgettable to the both of you. This would provide you both with the opportunity to reconnect and that's simply most likely what you really want.

ACTION PLAN:

To make it more achievable and easy to plan, ensure that you simply write down potential date concepts on a piece of paper. Then, place those concepts in a special hidden jar and pull one plan on every occasion it's date night.

That would maintain some level of pleasure and surprise, and make sure that you're doing things that your partner actually desires.

Don’t play down any of your partner’s concepts that don’t thrill you or your distinctive date night venture may turn out to be counter productive and that's not what you want.
Rather ,it advisable you choose events that are mutually enjoyable by the both of you.

CHANGE YOUR PERCEPTION OF YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Often the way we look at things causes us to feel in a certain way or the opposite and just a simple modification of our mental attitude may help us feel fully and totally different.

In your relationship, you may view your partner from a perspective that makes him or her look fully boring to you or you may simply be considering your relationship as boring because you are comparing your relationship to different peoples' relationships that you see around you or worst still those you see on TV.

Your relationship goes to be boring once you see it to be so. Fix your perspective and you may just have your relationship fixed.

ACTION PLAN:
The following could be a trick which will assist your modification of your perception of your partner. This can be a really real scenario though. I know a lot of individuals that have had to face this:

Imagine that your partner has been diagnosed with a chronic medical condition. All those very little annoyances that you haboured before would just soften away, as you would realise just how important your partner is in your life and how sad and lonely you'd be if you lost them.

Now, Imagine if that malady got a better part of them, make a list of the following:

What would you miss concerning them?

What would you miss concerning your relationship?

These are the items that create your relationship. These are the real things that makes your relationship distinctive and interesting.

On doing this little exercise you will realize that there are several things that you simply treasure concerning your partner, that may have been clouded to you or simply taken for granted.

You may discover that your partner actually makes your life fun and exciting in many ways.

Those items that you listed, are the items you would love to focus on once you deem your partner boring. Those things can assist you realize that your partner and indeed your relationship is way less boring that you simply thought it was.

Love is beautiful thing. Save and preserve it. It may not be any better on the other side.

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